Many years ago when I was in the primary school, I had always bought cincau drink (A black jelly served with sugar syrup) from her mother during hot weathers. She was a hardworking middle-aged woman with a very kind disposition. I remembered she had to walk more than a kilometer, carrying the two tins of cincau drink with a pole on the shoulder. It was never an easy task and she was sweating all the way. Once in a while, I saw her son followed behind. The cincau drink was sold off in no time. Then I saw the son came forward and asked for money. I remembered hearing this man screamed and cried when his mother refused. The kind and compassionate mother always gave in, though she always advised the son to go get a job.
Some years back, I saw the man again. He was in his mid-50's. He was married with children. He was still doing nothing. But he was bestowed with hardworking children.
I just can't imagine there are people in the world who do not have to work or to help out in family businesses.
I have never greeted the man. I don't think I will ever greet a man who never works before...
I wouldn't greet such a man either. He probably doesn't deserve it. I always wish for people like this to change their ways, but they almost never do.
ReplyDeleteThere are really some people who like to be spoon feed.
ReplyDelete"If a man will not work, he shall not eat." 2 Thessalonians 3:10
ReplyDeleteI must admit there are many of them in our community. I work in a factory. I get to know some of the lady operators need to continue as contract workers after age of retirement in order to take care of their non-working sons (not children).
ReplyDeleteI have noticed this seems common in Thailand too. There are many cultural differences and in my homeland this would be quite uncommon.
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I wonder whether a law is needed to make them work.
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